my 16yr. old friend works at the amc theater and just texted me 10 min. ago. i have been pondering about what to do and how to handle it. she said "I have a person that i am protecting." I asked her what she meant and she said "this lady I work with is being beaten and abused by her husband and he is a cop. i will kill him." i told her not to kill him 'cuase she will be tried as an adult and go to jail. she said "He beats a girl plus I will prove it so ye, I will kill him before he kills her" and I haven't texted back 'cause I don't know what to do or say her. if someone is hurting her friend(s) she will defend them at any cost and so is in many school fights so I believe she will defend this lady at all costs. but I don't want her to do the wrong thing you know. what do we do. you can't just go 2 the cops about another cop beating his wife it doesnt work that way but what can we do to get evidence and prove it and put him away the right way and help her friend? I am really scared.
I have a really,really, really important question!!...?comedy club If she and her daughters are in harms way, they need to get out of there...FAST. Document what she can and believe it or not, not all cops will cover for a wife %26amp; child beater. If they do, go to the state's attorney and file a complaint. Killing the guy just is not the answer.....let him go to prison and answer there.
I have a really,really, really important question!!...?sheet music opera theater
Tell your friend to tell her to get to a women's shelter pronto.
call your friends parents. she cant go around killing people...but good luck!
all text messages are used against you in a court of law.
Mind your own business!
If you call the cops and it's nothing except your friend being crazy..........what then????
don't text her back.
tell your parent.
ask them what to do!
Call a domestic violence hotline. You can call 411 or look in the phone book. Do it NOW! They will tell you what to do.
Please call the authorities........IMMEDIATELY!
If he is beating her, the proof will be evident.
use the cell and take pics. try and recorded whatever u can. there has to be somenone on the force she can talk to. call his captain and his partner, there has to be someone who can help her. call the police, at least they can start an investigation. this a critical situation do not take matters into your own hands!!!!!!!!!call 911!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
your best bet for all of you is to get some evidence or talk to this women when the cop husband is at work and tell her to go see a doctor to take photos of her injurys. The only way to stop abuse is to report it with evidence. Since he's a cop...it will be more difficult but she can go to victims services for their protective help* if she doesn't she may end up dead..or your friend that will do anything to protect someone will end up doing alot of time in jail :(
The WIFE needs to stand up for her rights and see either Victims Services or Shelters for battered women* GOODLUCK*
Your friend is planning to kill someone and plead defense of others. However, the fact that she has told you will likely preclude that defense. The reasoning is, if she had time to tell someone and -at least in theory-plan it, it is premeditated.
If your friend's friend won't call the police to protect her, your friend should do it for her. Spouse abuse is a serious matter and if the abused spouse will pursue the matter, the courts tend to not take it lightly. As a minimum your friend should help her friend physically remove herself from the situation.
This lady will continue to take it until she decides not to anymore.
Tell your 16 year old friend to back off (forcefully) because this will bite her in the butt.
She doesn't get to kill someone else's dragon. If she wants this battle to be hers, she will have to find her own abusive partner. If she steps in and does battle for this woman, it prolongs the battle because the woman doesn't have to stand up for herself.
that is a corrupt cop and no one including the justice sytem is going to protect a corrupt cop unless they are all corrupt. so take some pictures of the womens beating and then go and make copies and then give them as proof to the police and if nothing is done then go somewhere else and keep doing so and find a lawer. but first and most importantly get the beaten women away from her husband and protect in ur home or in another persons home so he wouldn t know where she is. the other things dont really matter unless she is in a safe place. tell ur freind that there are other ways than doing what she plans on doing and the only real payback would be to watch him suffer from losing his wife and going to jail. i dont believe that that is true but it is something that she would like to hear. and by killing him he wouldnt really feel the pain of losing a wife and freedom. GOODLUCK!!! i really wish the best!
You need to talk to the lady involved. She needs to stop confiding in and expecting a 16 year old to help. She is being ridiculous. She can go to a women's shelter and get help. She can leave him. She could go to the chief police officer or D.A. if she needs to with her own proof. Don't get involved and get your daughter out of that situation before she ends up in Juvie.
First, if she has bruises or any sign of abuse, tell her to have somebody take photos, then with or without photos she need to go to the police. Policemen are not exempt of the law.
A professor once told me: if you have a problem with someone; either at work, family, social circle; anywhere, there's always someone above that person to whom you can take a complain to.
This policeman is abusing your friend because in a way he thinks your friend has nowhere to go.
She needs to go talk to this man's superiors, the sooner the better. And if she has witness, photos, anything, the better.
Best of luck to both of you.
OK First of all there will be no fighting of any kind! And NO killing ever! Calm down and take a deep breath. And call your friend tell her to do the same thing. DON'T BE STUPID
If she does kill him she will be no better than him. Her friend needs to go to a shelter where she will be protected. Maybe in a different town. Maybe you should talk to some policeman in a different town too about her problem. She needs to go to a hospital when she gets beat up and have them take pictures of her. Pictures/video of her bruises will prove her case.
